Choosing the right symbolism for any gift requires processing! Giving a heart, for instance, is affirming self-acceptance and other-acceptance. “Hearts” are a “locus” of being. Heart symbols represent “feeling” more than “head-wisdom of reason.” Other symbols stand for different things.
For instance, dragonflies signify change in the perspective of self realization and the understanding of the deeper meaning of life.
While weighing what is happening in our lives and what we see in others often becomes complex! All of us have experienced how the mind can rob a good feeling! Get back to the locus! Feel, think, feel.
Traditionally we seek symbolism. We want to validate a situation and stamp it with a feeling, with a thing. That is how symbolism operates. While in the process of choosing a perfectly unique gift congruent with situational exchange, we often wrestle forces which challenge our life desires and structures.
Remember! Do not forget what actually is the crux (or heart) of the matter within us. Always get back to the crux of the matter, the “heart” of the matter. View the symbol as a mindful loving teacher.